Relationship Advice Needed...

October 27, 2004

I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.

I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my g/f. I think deep downI just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a veiw of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Walmart and try to repair it myself?

:hmmm

October 27, 2004

fix it yourself

October 27, 2004

Um.......yeah.....fix it yourself. :lol

TintDude · October 27, 2004

Do I move this to the Foobar or Auto Body and Paint? :hmmm

October 27, 2004

still looking for the punch line :hmmm

October 27, 2004

Don't Assume.. I know it does sound like it..But.. Catch her. Then take care of it.. If you care. you owe the Both of you that.. Just by chance.. there is a Reason.. and you confornt her. Her first Reaction is HE DON"T TRUST ME!!!

and If It is true!!! WALK AWAY!! That will hurt her more than you think.. But I am just a Woman :hmmm

wndotint · October 27, 2004

Why not have one of your friends follow her? It should be someone she doesn't know. Obviously there is a lack of trust in the relationship. It won't work without trust, PERIOD. This comes from plenty of experience. Lose her and move on.

October 27, 2004

I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.
I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my g/f. I think deep downI just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her.

whats up brother im new to the board. This all to me sounds weird, I havent experienced it first hand but from my friends. I got a girl too and I know shes good, she better.

But when ur girl says going out with her friends from work, hmmm she could at least introduce u to them or something. Maybe that can change things a bit.

Also when her phone rings. Thats screwed up, they hang up. And when she gets mad when u were looking at her phone for the time. Theres something going on there. Why would she get all jumpy all of a sudden, like if shes hiding something.

Talk to her about it bro, if she gets all jumpy, explain on how u feel about the whole thing. If shes honest and tell u the truth its better than to hide and deny it. Like they say bro, theres other good girls out there, if shes like that "She aint worth it".